Empowered woman
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Sometimes atleast rude behavior and bad comments from your blood relations and
legal relations will make you unhappy.it may make you feel helpless.but if you
are strong enough you may also know that you can abandon such persons at any
time if you wish when things seems to go uncontrollable.still these type of behavior
from people with whom you are supposed
live under the same roof in a unit called family might make you depressed also.
Most of the time gentle and descent women ignore such behavior
and comments and carry on with their
respective functions in the family as a dutiful member of the unit.in my case I
also do that.In my case I have a strong incompatibility with some family members.so
whenever they get an opportunity they try to demoralize me by behaving rudely
or criticizing my actions without much basis.They never waste any chance to do some bad mouthing about me to
other members of the family unit.I sometimes feel hurt but do not respond or
question them..one reason for this is because I naturally have a deep empathy
for all beings whether humans or animals or plants surrounding me.I place these
people in my mind in a helpless situation where they may not have a comfortable
life today which I am providing them
with my dalily duties and chores in the family unit.i can imagine in what pathetic way
they might end up if I am not there to serve them .They definitely will have
difficulties as they are not efficient as me in doing so many small tasks which
need patience and perseverance.
As a response to their bad mouthing I can also do this
openly about them if I want.But I never
did or planning to do that ever.because I clearly know its below my standards.My
supersensitivity makes me assess these souls deeply.my empathy make me considerate
towards them.Yet I know where I need to limit my interaction and carry on with
my own business.If I am sacrificing my opportunities and time for these persons
its not because I am helpless but because I believe in family and social togetherness
of living things.Humans are programmed
to ive in groups and I respect that universal programming.
The constitution of brain circuites are different in
different people.some cannot perceive others efficiently as others perceive them.their
thoughts are unidirectional.they can see only their side.they believe their
thinking is the only and ultimate truth.its I think a brain abnormality of its
electrical circuites or information processing.! Ofcourse I am not talking
science.it is just my assumption from what I see.
So in nut shell I know what I am facing and how to deal with
it is entirely in my power.Its my freedom to tolerate or to throw away.when I
know this fact I am an empowered woman.An empowered woman takes
responsibility.she cannot be a complaint box.she knows how to protect her
rights.She never blame others for her failures or disadvantages.Instead she
will stand up tall and reevaluate her path of life and find out the flaws and
take steps to correct them.
